Sex is part of a marriage. It can either make or break your family. There are couples who divorce because of unsatisfactory reasons during love making. Everyone can have sex but enhancing the sexual experience is a plus point for the relationship.
1) Sexy Lingerie
What makes a woman sexier than usual? When she is dressed in garments that requires the man to ponder and fantasize. Sexy lingerie in lace, sheer cloth, satin or even uniforms, ought to do the trick. Now with renowned lingerie brands around, asking your man to choose which one he wants to see you in is a seducing task too!
2) Foreplay
Women are different from men. They are not so easily aroused compared to men therefore foreplay is essential. Men should not rush into satisfying their own urge hence neglecting their partners. A sexual experience should be an activity that is pleasurable to both sides.
3) Be adventurous
There are many styles or ways to make love therefore a couple should not just stick to one. If having sex is done monotonously every day, it will soon become a routine. Making love should not be a task. It is part of the physical contact that bonds both partners. Try doing it in many styles and ways. If one is unclear of how to do it, seek help from Mr.Google. I am sure he is the most convenient person one can get regarding this matter. Attempting to make love in the kitchen or car is a wild escapade but please make sure your children or mother is not around to walk in on you!
4) Talk dirty
Dirty talk is one of the ways to enhance one’s sexual pleasure too. Do it when you are not with each other. For example, when both are at work. Talking on the phone may be embarrassing if someone overheard you therefore sending text messages should be just fine. Sneak in some time to tell your wife how you are going to undress her tonight. This practice will make the night a much anticipated one!
5) Change the environment setting
The lighting and set up in a bedroom (or anywhere else one is having sex) is vital as it sets the mood. If the room is too bright or too noisy, it spoils the mood. If one can afford, fix lightings with adjustable brightness. This way, the level of brightness can be controlled according to the occasion.
Having heart to heart talks with your partner to find out what their hearts desire such as selected ways to have sex or seducing outfits is a way to ensure your love making process a bomb!
Getting anniversary gifts for your partner can be a headache. Purchasing a gift but a wrong one can also cause dispute. On the other hand, if you do not get them anything, it may seem like you do not care or thinks that your anniversary is unimportant. So how do you decide which is the right gift? Here are some examples.
There are tons of gifts you can get a woman but what if what is there to give, has already been given? What about the male counterparts? How do you decide what to get him when presents for men are so limited?
1. Handmade roses
Roses are common gifts but handmade roses are special. One can fold roses using papers or even tissues. Pale colored tissues are sweet and impressive. If you have the time, try folding more. It’s bound to melt her heart!
2. Love coupon
Print redeemable love coupons just for your loved one. Coupons to exchange for kisses, hugs and even sex are deemed to be fun and electrifying. The coupon can hold messages like “Pink Lacy lingerie tonight!” or “One hour massage just for you!”. This is great for both men and women!
3. Homemade chocolates
Chocolates can be homemade too. Just get the ingredients from the Internet and add a little of your partner’s favourite flavor may it be Strawberry, Peach, Blueberry or even something extraordinary such as Chili or Pepper, (that is if your companion likes spicy food). Don’t forget the traditional heart shape!
4. Love notes
Try leaving small love notes around the house. A note on the fridge saying, “Remember to heat up the milk before drinking!” shows your care and attentiveness or a note on the bathroom mirror stating how beautiful she look even without make up on.
5. Award him
Awarding a person can show how much you appreciate that person. Get him a trophy stating “Best Husband” and “Most Loving Man” or something quirky such as “Best in bed”. That will definitely boost his confidence. Engrave his name and a short message that you’ll want him to remember always.
6. Remember what your partner said
Recall what your lover said yesterday when the both of you went shopping. Which dress she liked or which latest game he fell for? Buy those. Your mate will value what you gave even more when it is what they liked or wanted. If you don’t remember, the next time you go out shopping, do take note!
In conclusion, there is no such thing as a perfect gift, because everyone has their own desire and expectation of what a gift is supposed to be. You may be wanting a bunch of daisies now but after a month, you might want a bag. Therefore, one can only make a gift special by putting in effort and heart to make their love one happy.
You are walking down the aisle in a few weeks or maybe days and everything is almost prepared. You have put in so much effort to make your wedding the best but are you really prepared for the wedding day itself? What about actions you shouldn’t take? You should act your best because nothing shines brighter than the bride herself.
Rule Number One
Do not flair your temper. Everyone knows that you are the “Princess” of the day but do not throw princess’s tantrums. No matter how angry you are, try to let the feeling go. It is not only rude to release your anger for other guests to see but it will also make you look cranky in your photos. The smile you put on your face when you are angry is not as genuine and beautiful as the one you have when you are truly enjoying yourself.
Rule Number Two
Do not flirt around. You are getting married. Even if your best friend is a man, try to keep your distance in front of the guests especially your parents-in-law! It is not appropriate eventhough your soon-to-be husband approves of your friendship. Do not let your future-in-laws think that you have another man in your life. That would break their heart!
Rule Number Three
Do not get drunk. If you cannot drink, then don’t! One or two sip should not be a problem if you are not a drinker. Even if you are, never consume too much. You would not want to destroy your own wedding by saying that your grandmother’s favourite panty is pink in color with a Hello Kitty head on it!
Your wedding should be a situation whereby the memories are the sweetest. Thus, please do try to refrain yourself from doing something that you will regret and scar you for the rest of your life.
No matter which wedding it is, a Western-styled or a Chinese traditional one, it is part of the ceremony to have the lucky couple, as well as their parents, to give a speech before the toast. While some will have no problem conjuring a dramatic piece right on the spot, most of us will need some preparation for our best appearance, and no parent would want to be the embarrassment on their children’s wedding day.
So, here are some guidelines for those who didn’t know where to start to prepare for the wedding speech:
Make a List
This list here would include the following—stories, anecdotes, special moments which you would like to share with the audience. By writing them down, you will be able to organize each story/ special moment retelling in a proper manner, and cross out those that are deemed too personal or inappropriate for the occasion.
Write a Draft
After sorting out the stories draft them into a proper arrangement, speech style—complete with an introduction, a thanking note or grateful note, an anecdote, the toast and the closing end. Prepare the draft at least a week or 2 before the actual day, and prepare extra copies if you are afraid of misplacing them.
Practice Your Speech
Once the draft is perfected into a complete piece, it is time for practice. If you know you nervous in front of a crowd, start practicing as early as possible to get yourself familiarize with the content. Practice it with an audience (your friend(s) or spouse), who can give you feedback on where to correct/brush up.
Make Notes
Even when you’re well prepared, the overwhelming feeling on the big day may still make you nervous. Notes, point cards might come in handy in case you forgot a sentence or two.
Be Prepared
Be mentally prepared. Take a deep breath. Relax. But if you know you cannot stomach alcohol, do not take any before the speech. Nothing is worse than a drunken wedding speech made by the bride, the groom, or the parents.
Walking down the aisle is mostly a once in a lifetime experience. As a bride to be, it is only normal to fret over your dresses, makeups, bridesmaids, the venues and restaurants, and also all the other matters that require decisions. To sum it up, all you want is the best.
Your hairstyle is also one of the determining factors to complete your look. How you style your crowning glory will either break or make your day. Here are some tips on how to choose the right bridal hairstyle according to your face shape.
Firstly, you will have to determine your face shape. Stand in front of the mirror. Tie or clip up your hair to prevent any strands of hair covering your face. You should be able to see the shape of your face. If you have problems verifying, try using a white board marker or any stationaries that can be erased once done, to draw on the mirror following the outline of your face. The shape would be very obvious now!
Round shaped face
If you have a round face, try not to wear your hair short. A longer do will be suitable as you want to elongate your face. Make the top fuller to balance out the head. Try to choose a design that covers your ears or it will make your face appear rounder.
Square shaped face
A face this shape suits short to medium length style. The style should cover the ears partially to create an illusion of a longer face. Curls are the perfect way to make the face look more feminine.
Oval shaped face
An oval face is the most blessed as most hairstyle goes well with it. It can be long, medium or short. For a chic look, the hair can be pulled back sleekly into a ponytail behind the head. A simple do with curls for a chignon is also a wonderful way of styling.
Heart shaped face
This is a great shape for chin length hair. Bangs would also look great with your face shape. A chin-length bob with a short veil covering partial of the face will make you look stunning.
Rectangular shaped face
The illusion you want to achieve for this face shape is to make your face appear rounder. To attain this, try not to wear your hair too long. It will not do justice to your face shape. Make the ear and cheek area look fuller by letting your bangs fall to that length or wearing a veil that covers until below the eye level.
Overall, choose the best hairstyle that suits you well for the special day of your lifetime. Spend some time determining your face shape and you will not regret it when you look back at your wedding album later in life!
Here are the top 10 most spectacular pools at some of the world’s most well known luxury resorts; some designed by famed architects and designers too. So, if you’re looking forward to a relaxing poolside break, complete with romantic moods and scenic views, these are the places you wouldn’t want to miss.
| Anantara Resort, Golden Triangle
Overlooking the borders of Laos, Myanmar and Thailand, the Anantara Resort stood tall in the heart of the Golden Triangle. The structure draws its strength from the rich cultural traditions, historic heritage and natural beauty of its surrounding; creating an atmosphere of freedom and harmony that goes along with its name—without end, in Sanskrit. |
Pelican Hill, Newport Harbour
Built by Donald Bren, chairman of the Irvine Company, the Pelican Hill is a Meditteranean-style resort, located in California’s Newport Coast—also dubbed as the American Riviera. The clubhouse pool of the resort is probably has one of the best view a pool can have, taking in not only the lower terraces and golf courses of the hotel but the whole of Newport Harbor. Lining the pool are 300,000 hand-cut blue glass tiles.
Esperanza, Cabo San Lucas
Originally designed by Howard J. Backen in 2002, architect and designer Jim Rimelspach was later sought to renovated the compounds of the Esperanza, an Auberge resort in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico; its infinite pool being one of the prominent features of the resort. The infinity pool, gazing out to the Sea of Cortes, is interrupted only by the swim-up bar.
Shanti Ananda Maurice, Mauritius
The beachfront hotel and spa in Mauritius is designed as a calm and holistic environment for all its visitors. The designer, Chandu Chhada collaborated with architect Jean-Marc Eynaud on the structure, while Bill Bensley landscaped the 32-acre project. The 3 swimming pools added to the desired effect—the quietness and calmness is in line with the spiritual atmosphere of the hotel and spa, as stated by Eynaud.
Intercontinental, Kowloon
In a city best known for having the best view of Hong Kong as a whole, the 340-square-foot infinity pool, located on the terrace of the hotel’s Presidential Suite, overlooks an impressive panorama of the city’s skyline across the Victoria Harbour. The pool is open to all visitors at the hotel, located on the third floor.
| Hotel Caruso Belvedere, Ravello
Hailed by French poet André Gide as “between the sky and the sea,” the infinity pool at the Hotel Caruso in Italy creates a horizon that seems to go on forever. The pool itself, located on the top floor of the hotel, perched about 1’000 feet above the famed Amalfi Coast—a scenic view that has captured the breath of even the famed, including Hollywood legend Greta Garbo and former First Lady Jackie Onassis. |
Four Seasons, Jackson Hole, Wyoming
Unlike the others, this Four Seasons is the most spectacular during the time of winter. The 3 hot-spring-style outdoor whirlpools, filled with hot water, not only beautifully complements the winter wonderland, but also offers visitors a panoramic view of the Tetons as they soak themselves in the warm water, enjoying a warm drink or simple the scenery.
Observatory Hotel, Sydney
Talk about swimming under a starlit sky. A first glance at Sydney’s Observatory Hotel’s indoor swimming pool and you may not believe you’re actually indoors. The ceiling of the pool is design to mimic the vast starlit night sky of Australia, with fibre optic stars glittering upon deep blue; while the inner pool is finished using glass tiles from Mexico in 4 shades of aqua and blue.
La Mamounia, Marrakesh
Winston Churchill once called the hotel, located in Morocco, the most beautiful place in the world; now, restored to its former grandeur, the hotel now has a few newly-added features to its landscape, including an outdoor pool. Set amid La Mamounia’s fabled gardens, the pool is a tribute to the Menara basin, an oasis fit for royalty.
Raffles Grand Hotel d’Angkor, Siem Reap
The Raffles Grand Hotel d’Angkor certainly reminds us of Cambodia’s long ago past—an age where the Khmer kings still ruled. Its main swimming pool is inspired, both in design and proportion, by the ancient bathing pools the temple of Phimeanakas in Angkor—a luxury privilege once only reserved for royalty. The pool is also the largest in the kingdom, being 114 feet long.
To say that the event is a success is an understatement, especially when you have been there yourself. The weekends have seen a steady stream of visitors throughout the whole day for the 7th Malaysia International Wedding & Banquet Exhibition, despite there being 2 other fairs held at adjacent halls in the Mid Valley Exhibition Center.
Just like the previous fair, a number of renowned bridal studios and service caterers—a few already big names back at their home states or in the global market, have been invited to participate in the event. A walk down the Hotel and Restaurant Avenue and you will find well-known international names such as The Banker’s Club, Equatorial, Swiss Garden and Ah Yat & Unique Seafood among all the exhibitors.
Bridal studios are never short on renowned names, which include established local designer brands such as Ivory Romance, new brands such as Vivi Bridal and of course, brand names from Taiwan and Hong Kong. The best of bridal fashion trends is revealed in the fashion shows, in which Vivi Bridal and Ivory Romance have presented us with a spectacular array of bridal gowns and evening dresses—a credit to their designers’ brilliant effort.
Dresses and attire aside, Lence Ladies’ Academy isn’t losing out on the stage show either, with their demonstration on creative bridal make-up that brings out the best in every bride. Exotic eye make-up, sprinkles of rhinestones and glitters at the right outlines indeed look like magical touches applied.
While the fashion shows and make-up demonstrations usually steal the limelight, the cake decorating session by De Pastry Chef’s experts are no less impressive, what more with the free cake-sharing session once they are done with their demonstration.
In between each session of activities, Love Story Event presented to us their jazz band the Elements, entertaining visitors with a wide variety of songs—upbeat contemporary rhythms, classic romantic pieces, duets by the female and male lead singers, as well as solo feats by each member of the team. The saxophone solo tops the performances, although the vocal feat by their singer/keyboardist and their guitarist is equally amazing as well.
However, nothing drew the crowd like the Grand Lucky Draw, as the atrium was fully crowded even before the official start of the activity. For the 20 couples who won the prizes, it is definitely a huge surprise, and for some, a heart-warming, touching day when their other half proposed to them on the spot.
For couples tying the knot in early year 2011, this is about the right time for preparations and planning, what more with the upcoming wedding exhibition that guaranteed a wide range of choices, services, as well as interesting bargains.
Held for 3 consecutive days, the 7th Malaysia International Wedding & Banquet Exhibition is The Concept Exhibition’s latest bridal event. The exhibition, one of the grandest events in mid-year, hails the participation of more than 28 renowned bridal studios and bridal houses from China, Taiwan, Hong Kong and also from our own local talents; as well as 5-star banquet restaurants and hotels all around the nation.
Choices aside, the attractive bargains are the magnate for most visitors and buyers, which include the following: up to 50% package discounts available at all booths, free goodies and prizes worth up to RM500’000; and for buyers who have deposit RM500 and above in any booth, all will stand a chance for the Grand Lucky Draw Competition and win the 3 grand prizes- RM30’888 for First Prize, RM20’888 for Second Prize and RM10’888 for Third Prize; excluding the 17 Consolation Prizes which covers honeymoon packages and beauty care offers too.
Of the list of featured programs this time around, Ivory Romance and a few famous local designers will be there to showcase their latest designs in bridal fashion, while Love Story Event will be happy to perform their lovely ensembles for all the visitors present. A new addition to the list will be De Pastry Chef, which will be demonstrating their unique talent and skills in the art of sugar-pulling.
The 7th Malaysia International Wedding & Banquet Exhibition will be held at the following:
Time: 11am – 10pm
Venue: Atrium and Hall1, MVEC
Date: 23rd – 25th July 2010
With the huge success of the previous event, we sure hope that this time’s would be even more fun. So, don’t miss out this grand event in the middle of the year!
| As usual for every year, the IBE (International Beauty Expo), organized by Elite Expo has returned for its annual event at KL Convention Center, this time starting on the 22nd of May and ending on the 15th of May.
It wasn’t hard finding the venue, with posters and banners featuring the event or its sponsoring participants’ service and products all over the hall, leading to the entrance piece by piece. However, one could admit that the event for this year is indeed better than last year’s, with more well-known speakers, as well as more overseas participants and services or products available. |
Health enthusiasts would be happy to find that there is a section of the exhibition entirely dedicated to exhibitors from Singapore—which is quite well-known for all-natural or organic health and beauty products at affordable prices. One booth giving out samples of brown rice tea and multigrain porridge seemed to be quite the hit for visitors of all age groups, and others are faring equally well too. Women’s sexual health is also another focus in this event, as we have a few new participating booths offering healthcare services and products related to female personal hygiene and supplements.
The seminars are another sure-hit, especially for all the girls and women. Saturday’s seminar had renowned make-up artist and stylist Mr. Kevin (known as 凯文老师 or 小凯老师) demonstrated his skills as well as explaining the fine points to the audience. At the end of the seminar, an autograph session was also arranged for eager fans as well as the audience while the upcoming photography session made sure that the fans will stay around longer to have a shot with their idol. Aside from Mr. Kevin, there are a few other famous names too, such as Judy Lin and Lee Chung Yuan, both who are well-known in Taiwan.
Other events held during the 4-days include the International Nail Art Competition, one which saw the attendance of several internationally-renowned nail care and beauty specialist as honorable judges as a wide range of talented participants, such as students from styling academies and art colleges, or make-up-artists-in-trainings gave their best for the contest. Audience who missed the actual event is able to get a glimpse of the nominees’ masterpieces from the photographs displayed.
Even when it was coming to an end, there is still a huge crowd around the hall, snatching up last minute bargains before the closing. With all the quality products and services available at bargain prices, it is indeed one of the best opportunities for brides to be to get some fashion tips, healthcare tips and also beauty care tips, all under one roof.
During the wedding, the bride and the groom are the most important people, and especially in Western weddings, the mother of the bride usually is involve with the majority of the pre-wedding preparations and planning. So, what about the groom’s mother?
The role of the Groom’s Mother
There is an old saying (in traditional Western Weddings) on what the mother of the groom should do—Show up, Shut up and Wear beige. However, in an actual marriage, especially in today’s society where the bride herself is also working, some help from the groom’s mother is most welcomed. And let us not forget that she has her role to play as well, according to the etiquettes of a proper wedding ceremony.
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The first rule of etiquette after the news of the wedding is to initial contact between families. The groom’s mother will most likely be the first person responsible in representing the groom’s side of the family. It can be organized as a brief social gathering or an extravagant dinner, depending on family, social and financial background plus individual preference. |
The same applies for a traditional Chinese, where for the initial ‘Betrothal’ ceremony, it is the groom’s mother who will be the representative sending and receiving the gifts to and fro the bride’s family. In other ceremonies, including the most important ceremony—the Tea-serving ceremony, the mother of the groom is one of the VIPs that must be present.
| For her part in helping the couple, as in most contemporary weddings, the groom’s mother’s role might be similar to the bride’s mother’s –sending out invitations to guests (the groom’s side usually), footing half of the bill for the banquet dinner, hosting the rehearsal dinner (the dinner held on the night before the actual wedding day) and such.
In the wedding ceremony itself, the mother of the groom will be the one to lit the family candles at the altar, together with the mother of the bride. At the reception, she is also required to stand in the receiving line, greeting guests and introducing family members and friends to each side of the family. It is important that the groom’s mother discuss with the Maid of Honor regarding each other’s responsibilities, so as to efficiently coordinate with each other while avoiding any unnecessary clashes. |
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What to Wear
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The traditional ‘Wear beige’ doesn’t apply for most contemporary weddings now, and certainly not Chinese weddings. Nevertheless, the groom’s mother should be dressed as the occasion required, as well as in complimentary to the bride’s mother. Thus, if the bride’s mother wears a long gown, the groom’s mother is expected to dress in similar elegance as well, and her dress must not clash with the bride’s or the bridesmaids’ as well.
In Chinese weddings though, this rule is not actually observed, but both mothers of the groom and bride are expected to dress their best for the occasion; usually in cheongsam, or in attire that best represent them as the elder representative or matriarch of the family. |
