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绿色爱情蜜月挪威

  • May 17, 2010 at 12:37 PM

润 泽的新绿晴空下，热恋中的人们向挪威森林的深处去，风中晃动的树影，树木的深褐，花朵的明黄，叶间的流翠，还有干枯的殷红，依然眷恋着枝头的温存——绿色 爱情蜜月挪威！！

蜜月指 数：★★★★★

推荐理由：享受挪威森林中的静美与和谐，倘徉在沉静的湖畔，细诉着彼此的爱恋。

最佳时节： 一年四季皆适合旅游

温情提示：挪威人十分友好、好客。也许会邀请你到他家中做客，应带酒或给女讧人送一束鲜花或些许礼品。挪威 人认为谈话叶保持1.2米的距离是最佳的习惯距离、否则会被看作不礼貌，也会冲淡谈话气氛

被称为“万岛之国”的挪威，南北狭长，异常曲折的海岸线早就了15万个沿海岛屿，冰河遗迹构成的 峡湾风光时挪威美的精髓，是冰心中的火热，冷漠后的狂野之美。挪威境内多山，一半以上都是海拔高于500米的山地。斯堪的纳维 亚山脉纵观全境，山脉最南端的分水岭被称为“长岭”，是平均海拔在1000 米以上的高原地区。长岭以北的山脉在松恩峡湾里端 达到顶峰，挪威的最高峰，海拔2467米的加尔赫峰就在这一地区。

挪威三面 环海，自北沿西向南依次是巴伦支海，挪威海和北海。由于境内多峡湾，使得挪威的海岸线曲线长达21000公 里。海的寂寞有不可言传的自然的和谐，静伏中埋藏着无限的创造。乘坐游轮去靠近这篇深沉的海吧。

奥斯陆的码 头

挪威首都奥斯陆，位于挪威东南奥斯陆湾的北端，环山面海，空气湿润，气候适宜，是全国最大的城市，也是政 治，经济和文化中心。 奥斯陆一直是挪威最大的国际港口。奥斯陆城市面积的75%为森林和绿地，人均 绿化面积居欧洲各国首都之首。

奥斯陆由挪威国王哈拉尔三世始建于1048年， 现已有950多年的历史。1624年城市毁于大火后重建，改名为克里斯蒂安尼亚，1925年 恢复原名——奥斯陆。站在高处观看，奥斯陆被大海与林海紧紧包围，森林一望无际，林中的大小湖泊镶嵌在半山腰中，真是美丽 至极。

奥斯陆市内没 有林立的摩天大楼，街道两旁的楼房大多只有六七层高，行人稀少，如果浏览累了，可以在街角坐下来，细细咀嚼沉淀在 建筑和古迹中的刚强与真心。王宫建在市中心，宫前有国王卡尔·约翰的铜像，周围的王宫花园树高林密，草茂花香，清静幽雅。港口福建的市政厅更像一座古代城 堡。阿克斯教堂建于12世纪，阿克斯胡斯城堡建于13世纪。着名的奥斯陆大学建于1811年。 建于1899年的国家剧院门前竖立着世界驰名的剧作家易卜生的雕像。

若是恰 逢奥斯陆的滑雪期，城西的山坡上有一个大的跳雪台，每年都有比赛，观众多达10万。漫步在奥斯陆大街上，随时都会遇见一些扛着 滑雪板的青年男女，儿童们正在小巷里玩雪橇。在这个童话般的冰雪王国里，紧紧拉着恋人的手，与她一起迎风起舞，随雪飞扬，像那在半空中的雪花，飞舞着今生 的爱恋。

奥维格兰公园：奥维格兰公园是一座雕像公园，为奥斯陆最大的弗洛格纳公园中的“园中之园”。1924年 始建，历时19年建成。全部作品均有挪威雕塑家古斯塔夫·维格兰创 作。故公园以他的名字命名。占地80公顷， 全场有850米，是世界上最大的雕塑公园，分为“生命之桥”，“生命之泉”，“生命之柱”，“生命之环”四部分。共有192座 雕像和650个浮雕，是维格兰花了19年时间完成的。作品多为裸体，用石、铜制成，雕像展示了人从 出生到死亡的各个时期的情况，男女老少栩栩如生，喜怒哀乐淋漓尽 致，人生百态表露无遗，给人们许多人生的启示，因而又被称为“人生旅途公园”。

蜜月锦囊：

挪威有四通 八达的公车系统，长途巴士坐起来相当舒适，以距离长短算票价，平均每100公里15欧元。

住宿：挪威 境内有一百多家青年旅馆，有些是全年无休，设备相当舒适的旅馆。费用70~175欧元不等。可以在旅客服务中心索取住宿手 册，或是在各旅馆索取《挪威青年旅馆指南》的册子。

美食：起士，熏鲑鱼，烧烤驯鹿肉或雷鸟，维京料理， 三文鱼。

语言：官方语言挪威语，拉普兰语，芬兰语，英语通行。
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Tips: Getting the Best out of Wedding Fairs

  • November 19, 2009 at 11:10 AM

In Malaysia, wedding fairs are held almost once in each month, or sometimes more frequently during certain months, particular those which are closer to perceived lucky days for weddings. It is a fact that wedding fairs are the best opportunity for bargain hunting, from bridal attires to honeymoon packages.

So, for those attending the 5th Malaysian International Wedding & Beauty Exhibition and the Wedding Fair at Parkroyal Hotel this coming weekend, keep these in mind:

Plan Your Route

Even in a small wedding fair, the participants usually number over 50, from bridal studios to various other services; and might be more than 100 in a larger fair. If you are one looking to save time and grab what you want, you may want to go through the list of participants, mark down what services and which brand name/ outlet that will suit your taste/ has a recommendation from your friends/family and head straight to the few outlets that are your choice.  By marking down the location/booth number of your target outlets, you wouldn’t need to waste time browsing around. However, if you are not in a rush, and are quite unfamiliar with each outlets, spending more time in comparing prices and style will be advisable, before you decide to book for any service.

Bring Along Help

Do not be afraid to bring your whole family out, or your whole gang of friends. In-laws, parents, even your fiancé / fiancée will be helpful in many ways—getting more free gifts, giving a second or third opinion on things (bridal attire, wedding cake/wine-tasting, choosing a venue for the banquet etc), or even in bargaining. Most of all, you will have extra names to fill in for the lucky draw, which increases your chances in winning the prizes.

Prepare a Bag, Paper and Pen

While most vendors usually provide you with a paper bag or goodie bag where you can put in all contact details, name cards and brochures, it is still better to prepare one yourself, in case they don’t, or the bag wouldn’t fit everything. It is also better to separate brochures from name cards, so that it will be easier for you to find at the end of the day. With your bag, you could bring along your camera or digital calendar as well, in case you need to take pictures of certain things, or might need to check your schedule should you plan to book for any services. A pen will allow you to jot down minor details such as prices, package items for comparison later on.

Prepare Enough Budget

There are some bargains or packages that are only available only during exhibition day. Thus, bring along your credit card, cash or chequebook (and make sure you have the enough amount). However, be sure to check out everything about the package before you put down your payment—extra hidden charges, terms and conditions, especially on items such as gown/suit alterations, ampoules and make-up accessories (where some may not be FOC in the package). Ask the staffs immediately if there are anything you’re not sure about the packages and agreement.

Be Comfortable and Open-Minded

Knowing that it will be a long walk around the hall, come prepared with comfortable shoes so that you wouldn’t went home with swollen toes or stiff knees. Also, bring along an open mind. If it happens that your choice of photographer had been booked for the day, or your dream gown is not available at your choice outlet, don’t fret. There are more choices down the rows of vendors on display.

All said, enjoy the fair and happy bargain hunting!

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Sex, Intimacy and Magic

  • November 5, 2009 at 3:10 PM

No, don’t get it wrong. We are not talking about mumbo-jumbos and curses. Whether it is today’s more open-minded society or the yesteryears of conservative communities; couples, especially Asian couples, don’t always realize the magic in their intimate relationships. It may be due to the taboo surrounding anything about sex ingrained in our own upbringing, that we usually overlook the finer details in an act that was considered a sacred gift to married couples, something natural; yet still being viewed as something vile.

Enjoying an intimate moment is not just about reaching orgasms, or just satisfying physical lust. It is a moment where the souls of each spouse connect with each other, expressing their wants, their emotions, their thoughts to one another, with touch, kisses, instead of mere words. It is the process, of feeling each other, bringing each other pleasure; that is the most precious, not just the orgasmic end. And it is in the process herein that the magic of sex lies in.

For couples who wished to improve their quality of sex life, to find the magic  within, experts have recommended a few tips that are save to try, and easy to get in action.

  • Make space for an undisturbed period of time. A locked bedroom is the best idea. Spend this time with your partner or spouse.
  • As both of you are together, take the time to admire, cherish and feel each other’s presence; synchronize each other’s breathing.
  • Try to hear each other’s intentions. Acknowledge any concern, fears or discomfort you may experience.

The main point here is, to be able to share and learn to feel your spouse or partner. Acknowledging each other—feelings, thoughts, even fears and emotions, is the basics in a bond of trust, further reinforcing a sense of security with each other. That is where the magic can be found.

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A Figure of Importance-The Wedding Chaperon

  • October 30, 2009 at 11:40 AM

Most Chinese people would have been familiar with the title, and almost every traditional Chinese wedding, and a few contemporary ones, would need them to be there. Theirs is a profession that had its roots tracing back to the old days of ancient China. The ‘Dai Kam Jie’, known as ‘Xiniang’ in certain parts of China, or, in English, the wedding chaperon.

It cannot be denied that the role of a ‘Dai Kam Jie’ or chaperon is crucial in any Chinese wedding ceremony. This has been highlighted in the live interview session with three renowned ‘Dai Kam Jie’, who are the guests of honors invited for last week’s MBA Wedding Fair 2009, held at the Mid Valley Exhibition Center for three consecutive days.

Origins

Traditionally, the ‘Dai Kam Jie’ is a female either hired by the bride’s family, or is a relative of the bride’s side, who is considered an ‘auspicious’ lady (with living spouse and children). Nowadays, the ‘Dai Kam Jie’, also known as wedding or chaperone, is a professional practice, where the practitioners have to achieve a certain level of competency in their skills and knowledge before they could qualify to handle an actual wedding ceremony. Knowledge of the trade is usually passed down from mentors to apprentices, though nowadays, interested individuals can find such courses offered and taught by professionals as well. While the role of the wedding chaperone had always been for women, there are now men working in the profession as well, with some who are as well-known and skilled as their female counterparts. They are commonly referred to as ‘Dai Kam Gong’ or ‘Dai Kam Kor’.

There are certain criteria that one needs to fulfill as a wedding chaperon:

1-    Pleasant appearances

2-    Quick thinking and observant

3-    Good with speech

4-    Well-versed in traditions, ceremonies and important customs

Their Roles and Tasks


In a contemporary wedding, the role of a wedding chaperon can extend to being the emcee, host, as well as entertainers of the event. It actually doesn’t stray far from the old traditional roles of the chaperon, which includes keeping up the merry atmosphere and interacting with guests.

However, the most important part of a wedding chaperon is to guide the couple through all the traditional customary ceremonies and rituals, particularly during the day of the wedding. Here are some parts of a wedding that requires the help of a wedding chaperon:

  • Betrothal Ceremony

-          Where he or she will help prepare the items of significance for the exchange of gifts.

  • Dowry

-          He or she will arrange for the time and date for the meeting and exchange, plus preparing the necessary items.

  • Installing the Bridal Bed
  • Initiating the Hair-Dressing Ritual for the Bride
  • Prepare all the necessary items for the wedding ritual

-          The incense and candles for the prayers

-          The tea for the Tea-Serving ceremony

-          Other symbolic or necessary items important for the wedding ceremony

  • Assisting the bride during her journey to the groom’s house
  • Interacting with the guests, especially during the banquet

Aside from the above, the wedding chaperon’s gift of speech is also one of the important reasons to hire them. Throughout the ceremony, the wedding chaperon will be saying auspicious words and greetings, and if there is any uneventful happening, or a guest who came up with a less-auspicious word, it will be up to the chaperon to ‘save the day’ with another auspicious remark, while keeping the merry mood of the wedding intact.

A Must in a Wedding

As our guest speakers share their experiences with the audience, it is clear that why, even in today’s modern society, a ‘Dai Kam Jie/ Dai Kam Kor’ is as important in a wedding as before. Their knowledge in the wedding ceremonies and rituals are valuable, as with their services in assisting inexperience or busy couples in planning their big day.

For those who are looking for a wedding chaperon/ ‘Dai Kam Jie’/’ Dai Kam Kor’, feel free to refer to our Directory under wedding resources to find the most suitable candidate for the job.

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Dreams Come True – Destination Wedding

  • October 21, 2009 at 11:42 AM

Destination weddings are a new trend for Malaysian couples, started after the recent craze with Taiwan and Hong Kong wedding photography and honeymoon packages. For most of today’s couples, a destination wedding will be like fulfilling their dreams of a fairy-tale wedding of their own version; local or overseas; on land or on the sea; summer or winter.

Here, we have compiled some of the details that couples would need to pay attention to if they are planning for a destination wedding.

The Good Reasons

It is not too expensive

Particularly true, if your destination happens to be somewhere nearby, such as Bali, Phuket, or with affordable exchange rates of not more than 2.5 times of RM. With proper planning, a destination wedding could be as affordable as a ceremony plus banquet-of-1000-guests right back at your home town. Other choices of place include Hawaii, Australia, Korea, Taiwan and the Caribbean Islands, though costs will be higher depending on the currency rate.

It is honeymoon + wedding

If you are planning for a honeymoon right after the wedding, then a destination wedding is definitely for you. Now, even in Malaysia, island resorts and popular wedding destinations all around the world do provide R.O.M services, along with a honeymoon package at the local resort. Some of them are: Pangkor Island, Sibu and Langkawi, for those nearer to home; Hawaii, England or Korea, for those more exotic, exciting overseas adventures.

No Uninvited Guests showing up

When you’re having your wedding across the Malaysian border on a Thai island, chances are, annoying Uncle Loud will not ‘conveniently’ show up with his whole clan, despite the invitation only stating his and his wife’s names. The best part of a destination wedding—only close friends and family members will likely show up upon invitation, saving you the hassle of dealing with extra, and sometimes uninvited, troublesome guests.

Convenience in Planning

Planning ahead for a destination wedding is no longer the trouble it had used to be. With the internet, not only can you find out about your dream location, but also the packages offered, the transport, even an all round budget calculation. Websites such as Wedding.com.my provides couples with not only the calculation tools, but a directory on accommodation and registrar as well.

The Shortcomings

Guests will most likely not attend

The downside of fewer guests is that a lot of your friends or close family members may not make it as well, especially those who may be facing tighter budget constraints now. An air ticket to Bali may not be too expensive, but it is still a great sum for some people. And the accommodation as well. Unless you’re wealthy enough to include their stay and air ticket into your wedding budget.

Difference in Marriage Laws

When your wedding’s on another country, with a whole different set of laws, being registered in one doesn’t mean the registration is accepted elsewhere. And in certain cases, the process to legalize the marriage in both countries can be tedious; which is one of the reasons to do your research before hand and get the necessary documents prepared. And not counting on exotic tribal or traditional rituals, which might be bounding in the host country, but not back at your hometown.

Planning can be a headache

While the internet may have help lessen some of the stress, there are still lots of stuff that one will need to pay attention to when preparing for a wedding far away from home—accommodation for yourself, your spouse, and probably for some of the guests attending your wedding; choosing the right venue at the right time with the right price, and preparing the necessary documentation for any legal procedures (marriage registration, immigration etc).

So, all in all, it still comes down to each other’s own preferences, as well as financial means, if they’d decide to have a destination wedding, or one near home.

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八款补血必吃!!

  • September 15, 2009 at 11:50 PM

月经期间最好吃什么? 月经期间，抵抗力下降，情绪易波动，有的人可出现食欲差、腰酸、疲劳等症状。

因月经失血，尤其是月经过多者，每次月经都会使血液的主要成份血浆蛋白、铁、钾、钙、镁等丢失。因此，在月经干净后1 -5日内，应补充蛋白质、矿物质及补血的食品。选用既有美容又有补血作用的食品，如牛奶、鸡蛋、鸽蛋、鹌鹑蛋、牛肉、羊肉、猪蹄、芡实、菠菜、桂圆肉、胡萝卜苹果、荔枝肉、樱桃等。月经期间还应补充一些利于“经水之行”的食品，如羊肉、鸡肉、红枣、豆腐皮、苹果、薏苡仁、牛奶、红糖、桂圆等温补食品。 

有食欲差、腰痛等症状时，饮食宜选用营养丰富、健脾开胃、易消化的食品，如大枣、面条、薏苡仁粥等。为保持营养平衡，应同时食用新鲜蔬菜和水果。食物以新鲜为主，不仅味道鲜美，易于吸收，且营养破坏较少。 

◆ 姜枣红糖水材料：干姜、大枣、红糖各30克。作法：将前两味洗净，干姜切碎末，大枣去核，加红糖煎，喝汤，吃大枣。功效：具有温经散寒功效。适用于寒性痛经以及黄褐斑。

◆ 山楂桂枝红糖汤材料：山楂肉15克，桂枝5克，红糖30克。作法：将山楂肉、桂枝装入瓦煲内，加清水2碗，用文火煎至l碗时，加入红糖，调匀，煮沸即可。功效：具有温经通脉，化淤止痛功效。适用于女子寒性痛经症及面色无华。

◆ 韭汁红糖饮材料：鲜韭菜300克，红糖100克。作法：将鲜韭菜洗净，沥干水分，切碎后捣烂取汁备用。红糖放入铝锅内，加清水少许煮沸，至糖溶后兑入韭菜汁内，即可饮用。功效：具有温经、补气之功效。适用于气血两虚型之痛经，并可使皮肤红润光洁。

◆ 月季花茶材料：夏季或秋季采摘的月季花花朵，以紫红色半开放花蕾、不散瓣、气味清香者为宜，泡之代茶。功效：具有行气、活血、润肤之功效。适用于月经不调、痛经等症。

◆ 姜汁薏苡仁粥材料：干姜10克，艾叶10克，薏苡仁30克。作法：将前两味水煎取汁，将薏苡仁煮粥八成熟，入姜、艾汁同煮至熟。功效：具有温经、化瘀、散寒、除湿及润肤功效。适用于寒湿凝滞型痛经。

◆ 乌梅红糖饮材料：乌梅15克，红糖；30克。作法：将乌梅、红糖一起入煲，加水l碗半，煎剩至大半碗，去渣温服。功效：具有补血止血，美肤悦颜功效。适用于少女月经过多或功能性子宫出血。

◆ 黑木耳红枣饮材料：黑木耳30克，红枣20枚。作法：将黑木耳、红枣洗净。红枣去核，二味加水煮沸，去渣服用。功效：具有补中益气，养血止血，美肤益颜功效。适用于月经过多，贫血及身体虚弱者。

◆ 藕莲饮材料：鲜藕节、鲜白萝卜、鲜旱莲草各500克。作法：以上用料洗净、捣烂、取汁，加适量冰糖饮之。功效：具有清热凉血，止血固经之功效。

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Merdeka-Day-Themed Wedding

  • August 26, 2009 at 2:52 PM

In a few more days, Malaysia will be celebrating her 52nd Independence anniversary on the 31st August 2009. As for the lucky couples having their wedding around the month of Independence Day celebration, here are a few suggestions to add a touch of nationalism and patriotism in your big day.

National-Day Theme for Wedding Ceremony

Instead of standard wedding ceremony colors, incorporate the Malaysia’s flag colors and design into your wedding dinner and reception. The yellow star and moon as mobiles or confetti pieces; the red and white stripes stretched out as banners and ceiling decoration; you might even add in our National Flower, the hibiscus, in the floral arrangements.

While you don’t necessarily need to deck all the chairs and tables in blue, yellow, red and white, you may choose one of the colors as the main colors (yellow and white will be ideal, though Chinese couples may prefer the red), and use the other colors as complementary (blue napkins, yellow-gold cutlery and candles etc.)

Also, you may try adding in the national anthem and other patriotic songs in your playlist for the ceremony music.

Colors for the Attire

For a standard white wedding gown, add in some red, blue or yellow-gold to go with the theme; or you might want to choose a fusion-style wedding dress—like a cheongsam-kebaya, or a traditional attire different from your own culture.

For the bridesmaids and best men, have them dress in the range of our National flag’s colors; maybe a hibiscus corsage for the men, and hibiscus flower bracelet/ hair ornaments for the ladies. A hibiscus bouquet will definitely complete the look.

Food for the Occasion

Complete the menu with all Malaysian cuisines and delicacies. For one having a Chinese-style banquet (where tradition requires it), you might like to have some Malaysian flavors added into the menu, or mix and match food from different cultures for a change.

Most importantly, make sure it is suitable for all guests of different cultures and beliefs. Meat such as fish and chicken will be the best for dishes.

The main spirit of the National Day is for all Malaysians, no matter culture or beliefs, to enjoy the day together, while remembering our forefather’s efforts to fight for our Independence. So, as long as all your guests are having a good time, it will be the best for a National-Day theme wedding.

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A Happy Lasting Marriage

  • August 20, 2009 at 5:33 PM

While Malaysia celebrates her 52nd independence anniversary, some couples might also be celebrating their decades-long wedding anniversaries as well. So, what keeps a marriage going? What made it possible to fulfill the “till death do us part” vow?

For our grandmothers and mothers, divorce rates during their time are less compared to our time now. It might be the stigma that society sees with divorced women during those times that discouraged most from initiating the step. But for those who had truly stood with their husbands until present, they have their own advice and tips.

Only True Love?
Most of them would have told you with a smile that true love is not everything, or the only thing between couples. The dynamics in a relationship will not remain unchanged for years.

“Marriage is when you will spend the rest of your lifetime with another person. And it is not easy to begin with.” Madam Lum, a housewife, had admit that it did took some time to get used to married life, during the start of her 50-years marriage. The differences in habits, little quirks in each other’s life. “In the end, it is either learning to accept each other’s differences, or nothing will work out.”

“When you’re married, you’ll have a new role to fulfill, new expectations to meet.” Ann Lee said. Married for 10 years to her husband, the school teacher admit that she, as a wife now, is expected to raise children, take care of the household and her husband, aside from her own career. “There will be compromises and sacrifice, but a marriage comes with responsibilities that you cannot avoid.”

“But being married doesn’t mean you quit your life!” 55 years-old Joy laughed. The retiree now lives with her husband in their old home in Pasir Pinji, where both still find the time to indulge with each other’s interests(she likes a nice read once in a while he likes fishing) and meet up with each other’s friends. “It’s like giving each other some breathing space.” She added with a smile.

Learning to cope with a new life, accepting the responsibilities of a new role, and adjusting to a new level of relationship is the core in a successful, long-lasting marriage. While love had been the spark, communication and efforts to understand each others and sharing burdens is the glue to solidify the vow of “till death do us part”.

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Beauty Care for all to Share

  • August 5, 2009 at 2:45 PM

Hitting the spa once in a while is quite the pampering treat for every lady, and some gentlemen included. However, for those with a penchant for saving and would rather have a DIY-spa at home, or someone on a stay-cation hoping to try something different, here are a few of our ideas for a home-made beauty treatment.

For a spa idea all of you own, take a glance through Soaking Spa, DIY Style for some head start. It is simple, affordable spa luxury, all in the comfort of your home.

For a list of DIY face, skin and hair treatments, check out DIY Skin and Hair Treatment , DIY AHA Facial Mask , 5 Natural Hair Loss Solutions and Economic Beauty Tips for money-saving, easy-to-prepare, and equally effective.

As for myths and misconceptions, 6 Myths in Skincare will help you debunk some of the skincare myths that had perpetuated among skincare regimes.

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New Map- Top 20

  • July 3, 2009 at 2:36 PM

For our users’ and visitors’ convenience, Wedding.com.my has added a new feature to aid them in looking for their most suitable service providers near them.

Our new Google map on each Directory webpage will randomly feature the top 20 entries of each Directory category, all around Malaysia. Once users click onto different states, another map will also appear to show the top 20 hits of service providers under each state.

This feature will enable users to quickly identify the most popular service providers under each categories and where they are in Malaysia, or out of Malaysia.

New Google Map Features

New Google Map Features

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